About Me

About — The Perfectly Undone
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About Lauren

Still figuring it out. On purpose.

Working mom, recovering perfectionist, expecting baby three. Austin, TX. Something is always fermenting on the counter.

Recovering perfectionist Austin, TX 13 years in marketing Mom of 2 (+ one on the way) Children who lick things
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Portrait — Lauren
Kitchen or garden
Natural light, candid

Lauren — Austin, TX. Currently expecting baby #3 and yes, something is fermenting on that counter.

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How this started

My therapist said “so don’t do it all” — and I just sat there.

I was in a session, crying, running through the list: full-time career, two kids, a house that needed tending, and approximately zero hours left in the day. Thirteen years in marketing and public engagement. I was good at my job. I was losing at everything else, or at least that’s how it felt.

My therapist looked at me and said, “So don’t do it all.” That was it. Five words. I didn’t have a response because I’d genuinely never considered it as an option.

“We’re told a career, a family, a beautiful home, and a put-together appearance are all things a woman should be able to hold at once. I spent years trying. I don’t anymore.”

This blog is what came after that session. A place that holds the aspiration and the reality together — the cast iron restoration and the batch of lacto-fermented vegetables that smelled wrong. The dinner I’m proud of and the night we ordered pizza instead.

I’m not a homesteader. I’m a working mom in Austin with a full-time job, a third baby on the way, and a firm belief that a slower, more capable home life is available to people with real constraints. You just have to stop trying to do it perfectly first.

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Lauren cooking or gardening
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Warm natural light

The quick version

  • Marketing & public engagement — 13+ years
  • Mom to a 4-year-old, a 6-year-old, and one on the way
  • Based in Austin, TX
  • Gardener — learned from a dad who’s been doing it organically for 40 years
  • First to crack a joke when something goes wrong
  • Best under pressure. Genuinely.
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A bit more about me

What my friends would say — and what I actually believe.

I’m apparently very funny. (It’s always the first thing people say.) Not in a trying-to-be-funny way. It just comes out, especially when something goes sideways. If I ruin a batch or make a questionable kitchen call, I’m the first one laughing about it.
Chaos is actually where I do my best work. The crazier the circumstances, the more focused I get. Three kids, a full-time career, a blog, and something always fermenting? I’m fine. Better than fine, honestly.
I learned to garden from my dad. He’s been at it for 40 years. Organically, patiently, without shortcuts. That’s where my respect for slow processes started — and probably where I learned that things take longer than expected and that’s fine.
Women deserve to want beautiful things. Without the guilt. The bar was set by people who weren’t carrying what we carry. You’re allowed to want a beautiful home life and also put the laundry off until Thursday. Both things are true.
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What you’ll find here

Three things, done honestly.

🍳 Cooking

Recipes that explain themselves.

The why matters as much as the how. Pantry-forward, season-aware, tested in a real kitchen with real distractions — including a four-year-old who wants to help.

  • Fermented & cultured foods
  • Skillet & stovetop cooking
  • Pantry challenges & bean cookery
  • Preserved and put-up foods
  • Fat rendering & old techniques
🏡 Intentional Homemaking

Systems that don’t require a personality transplant.

Routines and rhythms for people with real lives. Low-waste, low-pressure, and not built around the assumption that you have three free hours on a Tuesday.

  • Analog cleaning routines
  • Seasonal rhythms & home rituals
  • Linen care, mending, maintenance
  • Low-waste home systems
  • Simplifying without deprivation
🔧 Homestead Skills & DIY

Skills I’ve actually done. With photos to prove it.

If there’s a before photo, it’s my before. If something went wrong the first time, I’ll say so. No pretending the first attempt looked like the last one.

  • Cast iron restoration
  • Beeswax wraps & natural alternatives
  • Tallow balm & home apothecary
  • Tool restoration & repair
  • Foraging & wild food prep
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Let’s be honest

What this blog is — and what it isn’t.

You will find

Things I’ve personally made, done, and photographed. The batch that didn’t work before the one that did. Honest timelines. Real kitchens.

You won’t find

“Effortless” anything. Sponsored posts for products I haven’t used. Stock photos. Content that makes you feel bad about your Tuesday.

You will find

The why behind the how. Enough technique that you can adapt it, fix it when it goes wrong, and make it actually yours.

You won’t find

A purity test. Amazon links are in the posts. Store-bought is sometimes the answer. The point is a better life, not a perfect one.

A beautiful, intentional home life doesn’t require perfection. Just the willingness to try things, laugh at the results, and keep going. I’m good at all three.

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Let’s build something beautiful.

Imperfectly, of course.